I am a pastor of a church on the Westside of Indianapolis. We are not a big church (130 worship
weekly). I am passionate about my job
and my church, and I truly believe I have the best occupation in the
world. However, after watching/reading
the news this past week I have been left with a feeling that all pastors and churches
are a bunch of bigoted whack-jobs.
Just within the last month we see news stories of Priests
suing the President over birth control, and pastors advocating extreme and
violent methods against homosexuals. Every
time I see Priests/pastors in the news I hold my breath and prepare myself for
the worst. The headlines for spiritual
leaders have gotten so bad that sometimes I wonder why I even do what I do.
Somewhere in the middle of being flooded with ethically
suspect clergy, I realized that media is extremely biased. Now I
am not saying they are biased against all forms of religion, or even a specific
religion (they may or may not be). But
media is biased toward the audacious, the corrupted, scoundrel, catastrophe,
and the tragically ironic. Media shows
the worst of the worst. Media is not
about reporting facts or truth in of themselves, but they seek to report rating
boosting headlines. It is about the
money from commercials they receive from gathering an audience.
Now I am very well aware that there are many self proclaimed
religious leaders who callously take advantage of the susceptible and weak. I know great crimes have been committed by
those who are held to the highest standard.
However, the reporting on churches and leaders has been so outrageously
slant, that it makes me wonder if it is the Priests/pastors that are corrupted
or the reporters.
The priests who molest people should be held responsible. The pastors who steal, cheat and lie for gain
should be called out, and spiritual guides who make provocative violence
endorsing speeches should be removed, but we should also call to remove those
who misinterpret the truth through slanting stories against certain peoples.
Of every corrupted pastor who commits some crime I know
hundreds who give up so much to help so many.
Of every church that sweeps things under the rug, I know hundreds that
expose the truth and offer comfort. I
know hundreds of churches that give food to hundreds of people in their
communities on a regular basis without using government funds that come from
taxes (of which we are one). I know
hundreds of churches that provide clothes to those who need them for free (which
we are also one). I know many churches
that donate money, gifts, and time to hospitals for the sick (which we are also
one). Yet the members of our church who
make this possible are not in the news, only those who are doing something
morally disgusting are.
There are hundreds of churches I know that help addicts
recover without the use of public funds.
I know churches that provide homes for the homeless, schooling and
training for the unemployed, assistance to struggling families, and counseling
to hurt relationships. When someone
passes away a church is always there to comfort the family (we even provide
meals to families). When someone is in
the hospital the church is always there. When there are hungry, homeless, naked people,
the church is there.
I am not saying we are perfect, and I am not saying we should
ignore the ugly sides that rear their heads, I am only advocating for honest reporting;
I want some truth in the news.
A local church daycare got in trouble for a boy who
accidently drowned. The news began
reporting that Churches do not follow regulations or guidelines that other daycares
must. This is the dishonesty that
saddens me. We run a Preschool ministry,
and our teachers are highly trained, highly qualified people who follow all the
procedures and requirements every day.
One of our children stopped breathing due to a severe seizure episode,
and our teachers saved the child's life.
No where was that in the news.
Our preschool prepares the children more (according to teachers, staff,
and administration at our local elementary school) than any other that feeds
into the school. We offer the 2nd lowest
cost in the area with the best care and education, and we are strictly
non-profit. Any family that is
struggling receives discounts so that no child is without a place in our
building. Our church and many other
churches are helping hurt communities.
I do not expect accolades, nor do the saints in the church
that work hard every day. We simply want
people to know, that many of us, most of us, are not about hate; we are not about
judgment, but we are about the love, reconciliation, and acceptance of
God.
Let us stop pretending that all Christians are terrible
people. Let us do the unpopular thing
and show what real churches, real pastors, and real lay people are doing
everyday in small local churches.